Ok, it seems alot of men are pigs.
That's including:
1.) your father or grandfather
2.) your brother
3.) your son
4.) your nephew
(Good news Andrew, Rob(Nadia), you are now classified as a pig, oh me too, but I've been called a pervert enough to know that.{Edite})
I know first hand that being gawked at can be uncomfortable.
On a trip to Boston, my wife and I walked into a Burger King, to use the washroom, and a GUY was gawking at me, and started a conversation, asking where I was from. (Ontario plates) I didn't (know that Boston's known for that)hang around to find out but he followed us to the hotel and asked if we wanted him to show us around.(spooky fellow)I
felt uncomfortable more because it was a man staring at me, and being across the border, made it feel worse(another country). That situation made me understand better what a woman might go through, but in retrospect if it was a woman gawking at me, I would have felt ok with it...I ended up walking away with my head held high, embracing my wife. No man was going to have me. LOL
Summer is here, winter coats, sweaters, and scarfs are going into the closet. All of a sudden, women walk around wearing almost nothing sometimes, and don't expect to be gawked at. Sex is in, everything is about sex, it's everywhere. Women buy clothes to attract men. They put on makeup, to attract men....and so on.
I wonder if some women get dressed in the morning and think, "I wonder if anyone will like what I'm wearing today." Who do you want to look at you, just your husband? Maybe a burka is meant for you.
This is a very controversial issue, and nothing will ever change. Men will always look (unless they are blind), and there will always be a woman embracing the fact that theres a chance they'll be gawked at. It's only human to be that way. Dogs smell eachothers asses, and if they could talk to their bitches they'd probably say,"Nice ass, want to go to the park and shit?" LOL.
If they look for a split second, as they pass you, you don't know if they are single, or looking, or just admiring your looks. NOW, listening to comments and gazed by a man is really rude, even if you are desperate, you should never disrepect a woman...and I'm totally against it, but there are some party girls out there, that love it. I've been to March break in Daytona Beach, enough said. I say, you don't know the woman, you should say nothing.
My wife and I have had our differences when it comes to this topic. I use to be the jealous type, but I soon realized that trusting her in the relationship was very important. It took along time for her to share my belief. It got to the point where no matter where I was looking, I was looking at a woman. Things have changed, I wear blinders now, makes it hard to drive but I manage.
You said it right at the end -just ignore them, put your head high, be proud and smile knowing one thing.
Their looking at you because you are HOT!!
We all want what we can't have....
...and I don't mind scratching my balls, as long as I am not on the rag.
Helder
