Men are mammals of the family Suidae
Ok, it seems alot of men are pigs.
That's including:1.) your father or grandfather
2.) your brother
3.) your son
4.) your nephew
(Good news Andrew, Rob(Nadia), you are now classified as a pig, oh me too, but I've been called a pervert enough to know that.{Edite})
I know first hand that being gawked at can be uncomfortable.
On a trip to Boston, my wife and I walked into a Burger King, to use the washroom, and a GUY was gawking at me, and started a conversation, asking where I was from. (Ontario plates) I didn't (know that Boston's known for that)hang around to find out but he followed us to the hotel and asked if we wanted him to show us around.(spooky fellow)Ifelt uncomfortable more because it was a man staring at me, and being across the border, made it feel worse(another country). That situation made me understand better what a woman might go through, but in retrospect if it was a woman gawking at me, I would have felt ok with it...I ended up walking away with my head held high, embracing my wife. No man was going to have me. LOL
Summer is here, winter coats, sweaters, and scarfs are going into the closet. All of a sudden, women walk around wearing almost nothing sometimes, and don't expect to be gawked at. Sex is in, everything is about sex, it's everywhere. Women buy clothes to attract men. They put on makeup, to attract men....and so on.
I wonder if some women get dressed in the morning and think, "I wonder if anyone will like what I'm wearing today." Who do you want to look at you, just your husband? Maybe a burka is meant for you.
This is a very controversial issue, and nothing will ever change. Men will always look (unless they are blind), and there will always be a woman embracing the fact that theres a chance they'll be gawked at. It's only human to be that way. Dogs smell eachothers asses, and if they could talk to their bitches they'd probably say,"Nice ass, want to go to the park and shit?" LOL.
If they look for a split second, as they pass you, you don't know if they are single, or looking, or just admiring your looks. NOW, listening to comments and gazed by a man is really rude, even if you are desperate, you should never disrepect a woman...and I'm totally against it, but there are some party girls out there, that love it. I've been to March break in Daytona Beach, enough said. I say, you don't know the woman, you should say nothing.
My wife and I have had our differences when it comes to this topic. I use to be the jealous type, but I soon realized that trusting her in the relationship was very important. It took along time for her to share my belief. It got to the point where no matter where I was looking, I was looking at a woman. Things have changed, I wear blinders now, makes it hard to drive but I manage.
You said it right at the end -just ignore them, put your head high, be proud and smile knowing one thing.
Their looking at you because you are HOT!!
We all want what we can't have....
...and I don't mind scratching my balls, as long as I am not on the rag.
Helder

6 Comments:
Oh my goodness...well it's good to have a male perspective...just give me a minute to pick myself from off of the floor where I feel laughing my head off!
Boston eh???
12:30 PM
Fell...not feel...I was feeling too, but the fall got to me first!
LOL
12:30 PM
Helder, you kill me. But that incident does sound very spooky. Can you imagine if that happened to a woman? If that happened to me I would be ready to claw his eyes out of his head if he even came near me...and I would be on my cell dialing 911 if I saw he was following me to my hotel. How did you manage to get rid of this freak?
Nadia
12:48 PM
Helder, I always thought my dad's father and my father were ...well, pigs..they were always checking out women which maybe is why I am sensitive to it AND yes they did this in front of me. Remember my dad's office at the building with all the pornographic photos? If you think this has not affected my sisters and I at all you are sadly mistaken. Don't want to bash my father..rest his soul...just want you to see where I am coming from. Oh and when I get up and dress nice (Not naked...nice) , Do my hair and take the time...guess who I do it for?? ME.
So you got ogled in Boston eh?? It's not all what it's cracked up to be is it?? Poor Helder
6:25 PM
Ben - I hope you didn't hurt yourself falling down...you know it can happen in Boston, and it can happen in Toronto. There's HOMO's everywhere.LOL
Nadia - It was weird, but more so because it was in the states. Already being uncomfortable, as a lone Canadian in the great USA...I was more nervous about this guy knowing our hotel.(safety)Luckily we left next morning.
Linda - I don't know what to say to you. No offense, but I feel sad that you feel that way towards your father...and yeah it has affected you and your sisters...in many ways.
Helder (cousin, not pervert)
11:21 PM
No Helder I did not hurt myself when I fell...lots of padding.
If you thought Boston itself was bad...I suggest you do not go to Provincetown in Cape Cod...lots of alternative couples down there...my ex and his father were always ogled there...it's where I first saw two men kissing in the street...Paul had to drag me and my open and shocked mouth away!
Isn't America exciting!!
1:00 PM
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